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How Do I Make My Wife Horny?

Is your wife tired of you or less interested in having sex with you? How is her sex drive? Do you find it difficult getting your wife to make love to you? Do you beg for sex from your wife, or have to force her before she get down with you? Do you want to turn the table around? I am pretty sure you will give anything to learn these tricks that will make your wife horny. You can make your wife want to have sex with you again by following the methods listed in this article.

If your wife loved making out with you, and all of a sudden she becomes less interested, always turning you down whenever you approach her for sex, or gives one complain or the other, then continue reading this article. You will discover some special tricks that will spike her interest, and she will come running to you to get laid.

So, why do you think your wife does not want you in bed any longer? She may be less interested in sex with you for different reasons, but one thing is certain, if she is married to you, then she had or still have affection for you. If you had an interesting sexual relationship, then it became less interesting overtime, then something wrong must have happened in your relationship.

I am pretty sure you love your wife, but it’s not enough. Women are very sensitive beings, and sometimes they can feel insecure in a relationship for no reason. Another thing is that our body changes as we grow old, so it could be that she is not feeling sexy as she used to; this can distract her mind from her passion and sexual desires. Another factor that can lower your woman’s sex drive is when she starts feeling under-appreciated in the relationship.

Applying these methods listed below can get your wife back in the mood to want to have sex with you.

1. Her head should be your start point

You can’t compare male sexuality with women; women are more complex. If you want to make her have sex with you, then avoid starting with physical things like touching her boobs or other intimate areas.

The first step to take is to make her brain aware of your presence. You have to play a different game than you usually do even if you are horny. Make her feel she needs you and she cannot overcome her desire for you.

Ask questions that are not sex-related; doing this shows how interested you are, and it will make her feel safe and comfortable. Most women are interested in this before sex. Try to know about her day, you can ask questions like:

Work related: How did she handle the problem she mentioned she is facing at work? You can comment positively by saying, “you handled the situation well, and you deserve a salary raise or promotion for that.”

Extend your care to her family: “Have you spoken with your mom today? I hope she is fine?”

Be Simple: “What do you want for dinner? Allow me be your chef today.”

You have to show you are interested in her as well as her affairs, not just her body. Make sure her efforts are appreciated, both at home and at work. Direct more of your focus to her instead of yourself. Don’t be selfish, like asking her what she plans on cooking for dinner all the time.

2. Fix or repair something she mentioned some time ago

If your wife mentioned something that needs fixing in the house, now is the right time to fix that. It could be that the bookcase is faulty, or the sink, or the computer, and so on. Make sure you repair them or find someone to do them if you can’t. Let her know she is not the only one that cares about the house. One more thing, there is absolutely no need to brag about it, just do it. Allow her observe what you have done instead of you telling her.

You can also mention something related to what your wife wants if you want to make the effect a bit complex. If you feel uncomfortable doing something challenging, like visiting her friend’s family or buying a new item for the house, you don’t need to do it right away. Just let her know you are aware and you care about her needs.

3. Make her relax and enjoy wonderful moments together

You can propose to have a nice date or a nap. Do not make love to her if she agrees with the nap, allow her sleep. You can use this period to do something else like visit the park with your child, or do a thing or two at home without distracting her. Give her some rest time.

You can decide to see the type of movies she likes when you take her out to the cinema, a comedy or romantic movie. If you go out on a date or dinner, minimize how you drink. Make sure your moves are spontaneous without creating any bedroom feelings. Don’t act like you are too sweet. Use this period in showing the side of you she loves the most. Do whatsoever you are doing without force, it will only create the opposite effect once she observes it.

4. Engage in physical contact away from the bedroom

You can get physical with your wife in a different location other than the bedroom. You can offer to massage her or have a bath with her. Let her know you want to get physical, not just for the sex. Make her aware that you care about her. Small and random touches could make magic happen. But make sure it’s not too obvious or appear sneaky. You can try any of these:

  • Approach her from behind and kiss her neck when she is in the kitchen preparing dinner.
  • Women love it when you massage their feet. You can give her a nice massage when she is reading or watching a movie.
  • Grab your wife by the waist and hug her while she passes by. Be spontaneous, say things like, “you look amazing today,” and “you smell nice.” Say wonderful things about her when you hug her.

5. Take care of your child if you have any

The last thing you want to do is abandon your kid for your wife to care for alone. Try having fun with your kids in the day till they get tired. Make sure you keep your kids busy. There is no awful feeling than a woman seeing her kid walk in while she is having sex with her husband.

Make sure you create rest period for your wife without the kids disturbing her. You can send your kids to go visit a friend or family member, swim, or go see a movie. Send your kids out so there don’t disturb your evening. Your wife will also appreciate your concern for the kids. How men handle their kids is an important, unconscious factor that makes them more sexually attractive.

6. Manage the ambiance

The right atmosphere plays an important role for women, as the sexual act itself. Ensure the bedroom is organized and clean. If she is into flowers and candles, make them available or you can play her favorite song in the background. Do this with care, don’t let her feel trapped or feel like she is overly seduced.

The most important thing to consider is you showing you are not really concerned about the sex. Be cool, do not rush when you are in bed with her. Your facial expression should not show you are over confident. You can say “we don’t need to have sex. I understand you are exhausted. I would love to give you a nice massage.”

Do it gently, touching areas that are sensitive. Allow her enjoy the sensation for a while. Don’t just dive in directly into the intimate zones. Women operate on a slow pace, always remember that. If she likes the environment you have created, she will be the one making the sex moves.

Continue stimulating her even if she still feels uninterested in having sex, don’t just give up. The important word here is “slowly.” Let her take her time, don’t rush her into it, let her feel her having sex with you if totally her idea. Even after having sex with your wife, continue being nice. Don’t leave her alone or sleep off immediately after sex. Stay with her and build intimacy. All this will make her want to have sex with you again.